Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Small Changes = Big Rewards




From the minute we are born our brains are being programmed by adults, don't do that, don't do this, that's right, that's wrong, the list goes on. Parents all over the world programming their children's minds with what they believe is right. Like a computer the information is stored in the memory and is repeated day in day out, over and over again. Once programmed it is sometimes hard to change our life we consider normal.

However, by looking at ways of improving the mind can only bring the dreams we have one step closer to reality. With small changes we can all improve the way we live. If we sit back and live the life we have been given it will always stay the same.

Achieving can become addictive, as a smoker for most of my life and tried to pack up more times than one can remember. There were plenty of reasons to quit, children, the cost and health were the top ones. However I always could find a good excuse to start again, an argument with the wife, a special occasion, down the pub with other smokers that was good enough reason.

Then One day and I still don't know why, I woke up and decided I wasn't going to smoke again, there wasn't a last one or last puff I just stopped. I did that 3 years ago, packing up was so easy once I got it into my head.




My head is now programmed to believe that I don't need them, and since stopping I have continued to look for the next challenge. 3 years ago I would have loved to know how to turn on a computer, I now own 3 of them and have a built a number of websites too! I am always on the look out to find ways of improving myself.

Talking to people is one of my favourite past times but for some reason I get nervous when I have to stand up in front of people and make a speech, that is what I have made my project at the moment, so when I officially marry the woman I already call my wife, I will be able to stand up in front of a crowd and tell everyone how much I love her, without stumbling around for words.

By slowly changing the way our minds are programmed, it is possible to achieve almost anything in life, with confidence and self-belief more and more people are getting out of life what they have only ever dreamed about before.

Inspirational

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Personal Power Maps and Creative Ideas

At about the same time I started to think about building an Internet website, I considered my personal strengths and resources. It occurred to me that it might be a good idea to make a list of all the things I have in my life, as well as the things I have learned and skills I can use. This could help me come up with new directions for my personal development. After I've started writing these things down, I decided to call it "Power Maps" as they outline my sources of power, and could also show me ways to turn my strengths into more powerful actions. In this brief article I will try to demonstrate how I do this, hoping you can do the same. I use my own Power Map as an example, so you also get a chance to know me better...
I began by writing down the major categories of things I do and am related to. Here is what I came up with:

  • Family & Friends
  • Places I know
  • My Studies & Work
  • Languages
  • My Hobbies & Pastimes

Try to make your own list now. It doesn't have to be similar to the one I made or even have the same logic or structure. Just try to think of the major things that make up the person that you are.
Next, I added more details to each major category - ending up with many of the things I consider to be my sources of power and knowledge. This is what it looked like by now:
  • Family & Friends
    • My wife
    • My children
    • My mother, sisters & brother
    • My friends

  • Places I know
    • Israel
    • Europe
    • South America
      • Argentina
      • Chile
      • Peru
      • Bolivia
      • Brazil

    • South East Asia
      • India
      • Nepal
      • Thailand


  • My Studies & Work
    • Human Resources
    • Management skills training
    • Thinking, Innovation & Creativity
    • Philosophy
    • Computers
      • Web programming
      • Database planning
      • Online & computer games

    • Myself as an employee

  • Languages
    • Hebrew
    • English
    • Spanish

  • My Hobbies and Pastimes
    • Capoeira
    • Diving
    • Board games


Seeing all that I have in my favor, I already started to feel stronger!
If you want to get the same feeling - take a few minutes to list many of your own sources of power.

Turning power maps into creative action

Now it was time to start thinking how I could turn all those resources into something I could make or contribute. In other words - come up with new and useful things I could do with all I have. What I came up with was consisted of things I did before and could do better or on a larger scale; things I haven't done before but believed I could do; and some other creative ideas that just came up.



In order to distinguish these action ideas from the resources I already listed, I use an undeline for the action items. I am sharing some of these with you:
  • Family & Friends
    • My wife
      • Help your wife pursue her dream
    • My children
      • Write children's books
    • My mother, sisters & brother
    • My friends

  • Places I know
    • Israel
      • Knowing what it's all about
    • Europe
    • South America
      • Argentina
      • Chile
      • Peru
      • Bolivia
      • Brazil

    • South East Asia
      • India
      • Nepal
      • Thailand


  • My Studies & Work
    • Human Resources
    • Management skills training
      • Tools for planning
      • Small Business Handbook
    • Thinking, Innovation & Creativity
      • Improved Memory Techniques
      • Building a Personal Thinking Center
    • Philosophy
    • Computers
      • Web programming
      • Database planning
      • Online & computer games
        • Principles of development
        • Review best games on the web

    • Myself as an employee

  • Languages
    • Hebrew
    • English
      • Translation tips
    • Spanish
      • Learning tips

  • My Hobbies and Pastimes
    • Capoeira
    • Diving
    • Board games
      • Playing tips
      • Designing & Inventing



Now I had something I could work with. There were other things on the list - this is just to show you the general idea. I am sure that if you try to complete your own Power Map now - you'd have many action ideas.

Bringing it all together

With such a detailed Power Map, you can start looking for practical ways to harness all that power to interesting development possibilities. The strongest creative ideas would be those that combine as many strengths and action items as possible. Consider the creative ideas website I have built (see resource box below) - it combines my power at: English, Internet, Creativity, Management training, and more.

I truly hope this can help you become stronger, more creative, and ultimately happier. If you liked this article and the Power Map tool, you should check out the Resource Box Below for a constantly growing source of ideas and creativity tools.


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